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Web-Based Dating – Items To Think About

August 27, 2011 – 6:46 am


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It is part of human nature to have a desire to connect with another human in a romantic way. Turning to the internet as an aid to find a potential life partner is not out of question. It is becoming popular and more accepted in today’s society.

The default venue for this is the matchmaking sites. Whether a paid service or given for free, the sites generally work by getting information from their users and match them according to compatibility.

At present, there are even matchmaking sites that cater to specific niches. Whatever your background, preferences, and intentions for finding a date, there is likely a site that will suit you.

Often you will find that sites are specifically catered for a particular age group. You can go to sites that are for young people in their 20s, or you could go to one that cater for senior citizens.

Other people are more worried about the religious affiliation of potential partners, another search filter you can use. There are many sites out there that allow people with similar religious outlooks to connect.

Even single parents who are interesting in trying out the dating scene once again also have their own matchmaking sites. There is also one site just recently launched where sugar daddies and ladies looking for one can hook up.

Because the internet knows no borders, then it is even possible to get a date with someone in another country. In fact, this is a new niche market, and is a great way to meet people you may otherwise never have come across.

You don’t have to restrict yourself to online dating websites though. With the advent of social networking, you can join up and meet all types of people anywhere in the world, who knows, your soul mate could be one click away.

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How Acting Like A Girl Can Attract Women

December 26, 2010 – 2:08 am


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From when we were babies to hitherto social pressures have forced us into the role of being a man.

We were discouraged to act feminine. It’s part of being socialized.

This was dinned into us by our mother and father; by books we read and TV shows we watched; and by our teachers in school.

Perhaps an example would shed light on this.

Take a visit to a local toy store.

You’ll notice that most toys aren’t for boys and girls.

In the boys section you’ll find G.I. Joes, Transformers, and Thomas the Train.

In the girl’s section you’ll find Barbie dolls and Dora the Explorer.

These toys aren’t just “toys.” They’re teaching aids for training kids to become a man or a woman.

If a boy is caught brushing a Brat doll’s hair, his friends will most likely make fun of him and call him a girl.

If his parents catch him, they may punish him. That’s because they fear he won’t be properly inculcated into the role of a man.

This causes boys and men alike to stay clear of acting like a girl.

There’s nothing wrong with this except that some of the best seducers have developed their feminine side. These men are called “Dandies.”

They oscillate between the role of a man and a woman.

In fact, their seductive power lies in that they cannot be categorized as masculine or feminine.

When a person cannot be categorized, they entrance others. We are attracted to those who entrance us.

The famous psychiatrist Dr. Freud famously said that people are bisexual. According to him, all of us are attracted to both males and females.

But but being stigmatized prevents most of us from acting on these urges.

Women are attracted to the Dandy because he is a woman inside a man’s body.

Dandies are notoriously insolent: they have very little need to please people – especially women. This is another facet of their allure.

To become a Dandy, train yourself to be attentive to detail, relinquish your need to please others, and develop your feminine side.

I want to leave you with a quote from Pablo Picasso: “I am a woman. Every artist is a woman and should have a taste for other women. Artists who are homosexual cannot be true artists because they like men, and since they themselves are women they are reverting to normality.”

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Seduction – Discover How Master Casanovas Interact With Women

December 16, 2010 – 3:01 am


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It has happened to every man… and it plain sucks…

A girl hotter than the super model Gisele traps you dead in your tracks.

She’s got a body and face that would earn an A + in Hitler’s book any day.

You may even think about doing things to her that wouldn’t get mom’s seal of approval.

Now for the part that’s more gruesome than a baby lamb halfway through fleecing and slaughtering…

You come back to reality and realize this sexy vixen is right in front of you.

Your tongue is tied into a knot. In this moment, you feel like you’ve got the conversation skills of Forrest Gump.

“If I had the ultimate pick up line, I could be doing the nasty with her in no time” you think to yourself.

Maybe.

But consider this…

Give a group of men the same pick up line. Some of them will crash and burn. But others will be making sweet monkey love with a woman in no time.

Another point to consider…

If you’ve ever watched naturals in action, you may notice that many don’t use pick up lines.

When they do use one, it’s so bad, they have cheese wiz oozing out of every orifice.

Here’s my point…

There’s nothing wrong with using a pickup line.

But it isn’t the words flying out of your trap that spark a sexual interaction between you and a woman.

What’s the trick?

Get a face transplant, buddy?

Just joking.

Here’s my advice…

When out hitting the single scene trenches, observe the men who suck up all the female attention.

Ignore the content of what they’re saying.

Instead, notice how they talk to and act around gorgeous girls.

About twelve years ago, I did this and discovered certain universal behavioral patterns all ladies men exhibit when approaching and sexually vibing with women.

In this article, I don’t have time to share them all.

But here are a couple to get you started…

1) Get out of your head:

Ladies men don’t spend much time fretting over how a woman is going to react to them. Instead, they are extroverted perceivers. In other words, they expend their mental energy observing their environment and the women they’d like to approach.

Here’s an exercise that will pull you outside your head and into the real world…

When hitting the single scene trenches, spend some time observing your environment. What’s going on? Who’s trying to pick up who? What are the women doing? Do they feel happy, upset, smug… or some else? What are they wearing and what does it mean about them? This will move your focus of attention away from the negative thoughts in your head and onto your environment where it belongs.

2) When they see a woman they like, they approach right away:

When most men see an attractive woman, their mind floods with a stampede of worries, such as: “Am I too short or too tall for her?” Will she embarrass me in front of everyone?” “Does she have a boyfriend?” and so on The longer they wait, the more cancerous thoughts burrow their way into their noggin, making even more difficult to approach. Don’t fall victim to this.

When you see a girl you like, take no more than three seconds to approach.

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A Number Of Tips To Get A Wonderful Online Dating Experience

August 11, 2010 – 8:16 am


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When you look online for love, you are also going to run into a whole world of crazies out there, so learn the ropes a little bit before you sign up.

Don’t set yourself up for a disappointment right off the bat by signing up for the wrong dating site. Because there are so many out there, and they all cater to certain things, find the one that suits what you want and are looking for. If you want a relationship, then don’t go to a hookup site.

If you want a relationship, think of going to sites like match.com or Eharmony.com. They both will give you personality and expectations assessment when you register, and that’s how they try and pair you up with others that share similar expectations.

Follow these simple guidelines to have the best luck in the online dating world:

Putting up a current picture that represents how you look now is the first and best way to have a good ad and generate responses. A lot of people put old pictures or even ones that aren’t of them at all. Nothing good can come out of that other than problems, so be honest.

If you don’t use a natural photo of you, when it comes time for the first date, chances are that the person will be disappointed, so just put something up that is a good likeness of you. Also, remember that the main reason that people do not look at profiles is that there is no picture on it.

One other thing to do is when you create your bio, make sure you don’t get too wordy. Make it simple and interesting, and people will respond better.

Additionally, having a very wordy profile will decrease your chances of getting visitors to read through it. Use it judiciously and creatively, but don’t tell everything about yourself.

Make your profile reveal things about you while at the same time having it be brief enough that people will want to contact you to know more. Also, be honest. Nobody likes fakes or people that make themselves out to be people that they are not.

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