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Today we are going to have a look at a derogatory label that gets bandied around a bit. The “gold digger”.
The gold digger is the woman who specifically seeks to date a wealthy, financially successful man. As always, these types of label are really unfriendly and do not help people find their ideal partner at all.
People are different throughout the world. Every difference comes with its own pleasures and comes with its own pressures. Being rich is only one of those differences and its not for everyone. If you don’t think there are pressures for the rich, just look at the gossip section of any magazine. Not everyone can handle the pressures associated with abundance. That is why for so many people, winning the lottery is the worst thing that ever happened to them. It destroys their life.
Every person is different. I am different to you, you are different to everyone else. We all have different ideas, opinions and priorities. We all excel in different situations, we all crumble in different situations. Living a life of wealth and abundance does not work for everyone. The pressures associated with generating and maintaining such wealth do not work for everyone. For me for example, a life committed to love and family would be way more fulfilling than a life committed to career or business. Maintaining such wealth would not work for me. But that’s just me. Others do not need to wake up and walk their children to school. They wake up and need to get to work. Its what drives them. It’s who they are.
I know that lifestyle isn’t for me. The costs would be too great. Which is why I don’t get the gold digger label. Someone else understands that that type of lifestyle is for them. Its the lifestyle that brings out the best in them. They actively pursue the lifestyle by dating people who can share it with them and then others label them as a gold digger for their trouble. It isn’t even any of their business.
If you are being honest with yourself, if you know what you need to be the best person you can be, just go for it. If in your circumstance, this means finding a wealthy or successful partner, great. Good luck. There are plenty of dating sites out there which cater specifically to your circumstance
And forget about the detractors. Remember, their opinions usually tell you more about them than the people they are opining about.
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